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Who knew a Monday morning could be so eye-opening? On my way to work I get a call from the ex I’ve been trying to ditch. Jim (yes another middle name). He called to check on me after my weekend of plague and I jokingly told him at one point my fever was so bad I wanted to put a 12-gauge to my continue (totally kidding folks). He then graciously offered up that he acquired a shotgun about two years ago and was willing to help anytime. Ok folks here’s the situation. I am not adverse to guns in any way. I’ve shot them know people who have them don’t care. They can be quite useful. So long as you’re not a raving lunatic with a history of mental illness on the happy padded farm and didn’t acquire it/them illegally. Otherwise have gun go travel. I have exes who had or currently have weapons. My ex. Aidan had samurai swords in our apartment and a best friend with a penchant for keeping pet pythons. They joked. They can joke. Jim cannot joke. Jim is a civilian employee for our major police department. Knows people and I mean. KNOWS people. He got his cushy job the easy. Chicago way if you know what I mean. Of any ex of mine who should not own a firearm it’s him. This is the man who when I was dumping him kept showing up at my office and apartment at all hours “to talk” and would call and harass the guy I had started seeing. So this morning I passed his mention off as a joke and said something like. “Yeah right.” He of course said he would never do anything but then offered that he seriously thought about it when he found out I had slept with a guy from Denver (several times) while I was on a business trip to Fiji and Australia while Jim had been off to buy an $8,000 engagement ring. The man was not joking. At all. What does a girl say to that? “Uh gee thanks Jim. I appreciate your generosity.” “Can I have the ring anyway? I have a few car payments to alter.” His anger at that time was wholly understandable. I would’ve felt the same way. And no - I am not afraid of this guy. He may be an emotional cream puff but he's not that stupid. If I was afraid of him he and I wouldn't even be conversing. However. I think I will end up having a drink with Jim in public. Get it out of the way make sure things are “nice nice” and we’re all happy campers. He's a little jealous right now that I got together with another ex recently and have been blowing him off. I will let many people know where I am and at what time I’m expected home. UUURRRRRRGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!! Sorry but had to let that frustration emit out before I said something stupid and mean and cruel in my comments. With that aside let me say this sngllife please just cut it off with him now over the phone from an undisclosed location preferably. He has not gotten over you and any chance he has to worm is controlling self back into your life he will take. Unfortunately these people are kinda like Pandora's box. change surface opening just a hint--just an eeenie weenie tiny crack-- is potentially very dangerous. Someone who even jokes about taking a shotgun to your head or readily willing to help you is not funny but very --- shall we say disturbed unstable not quite all there. By cutting him off again you will be provoking him. Know this now butit must be done for your safety. Unfortunately there are some exes you just can't be friends with. They just don't get it and they haven't changed or grown up and never will. So PLEASE PLEASE gratify be careful and keep your distance. I speak because I care. I agree. Samurai swords are cool. Which is why I didn't mind having them around. I may have even purchased a set at one time. ;) No need to mind about me. Skippy. All is ok. Like i said if anything was really bad suspicious or I thought could get out of hand I wouldn't be talking to him. Still looking after me huh? I admit I am still looking out for you. I guess because I care. But I respect your decision. Won't give you crap about it either. Now can someone hand me a tissue. 'cause that just sounded way too sappy...... Sounds like a whack job. Maybe you're right by meeting with him tho. And find a way to connect with him that tells him very clearly you feel absolutely nothing for him that way. You are not attracted to him sexually or emotionally and you think he should find a girl that would be able to appreciate everything he has got going for him. You know. Something like that. Then hire someone to whack him first. (I'm joking. Of course. Joke. See? Really. I'm joking.)

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Who knew a Monday morning could be so eye-opening? On my way to work I get a call from the ex I’ve been trying to ditch. Jim (yes another middle name). He called to check on me after my weekend of plague and I jokingly told him at one point my fever was so bad I wanted to put a 12-gauge to my head (totally kidding folks). He then graciously offered up that he acquired a shotgun about two years ago and was willing to help anytime. Ok folks here’s the situation. I am not adverse to guns in any way. I’ve shot them know people who have them don’t care. They can be quite useful. So long as you’re not a raving lunatic with a history of mental illness on the happy padded farm and didn’t acquire it/them illegally. Otherwise have gun go travel. I have exes who had or currently have weapons. My ex. Aidan had samurai swords in our apartment and a best friend with a penchant for keeping pet pythons. They joked. They can joke. Jim cannot joke. Jim is a civilian employee for our major police department. Knows people and I convey. KNOWS people. He got his cushy job the easy. Chicago way if you know what I mean. Of any ex of mine who should not own a firearm it’s him. This is the man who when I was dumping him kept showing up at my office and apartment at all hours “to talk” and would call and harass the guy I had started seeing. So this morning I passed his comment off as a joke and said something like. “Yeah right.” He of cover said he would never do anything but then offered that he seriously thought about it when he found out I had slept with a guy from Denver (several times) while I was on a business trip to Fiji and Australia while Jim had been off to buy an $8,000 engagement ring. The man was not joking. At all. What does a girl say to that? “Uh gee thanks Jim. I appreciate your generosity.” “Can I have the ring anyway? I have a few car payments to make.” His anger at that time was wholly understandable. I would’ve felt the same way. And no - I am not afraid of this guy. He may be an emotional cream puff but he's not that stupid. If I was afraid of him he and I wouldn't even be conversing. However. I think I will end up having a drink with Jim in public. Get it out of the way make sure things are “nice nice” and we’re all happy campers. He's a little jealous right now that I got together with another ex recently and have been blowing him off. I will let many people know where I am and at what time I’m expected home. UUURRRRRRGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!! Sorry but had to let that frustration yell out before I said something stupid and mean and cruel in my comments. With that aside let me say this sngllife gratify just cut it off with him now over the phone from an undisclosed location preferably. He has not gotten over you and any chance he has to worm is controlling self back into your life he will act. Unfortunately these people are kinda like Pandora's box. Even opening just a hint--just an eeenie weenie tiny crack-- is potentially very dangerous. Someone who even jokes about taking a shotgun to your head or readily willing to help you is not funny but very --- shall we say disturbed unstable not quite all there. By cutting him off again you will be provoking him. Know this now butit must be done for your safety. Unfortunately there are some exes you just can't be friends with. They just don't get it and they haven't changed or grown up and never will. So PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be careful and keep your distance. I speak because I care. I agree. Samurai swords are cool. Which is why I didn't mind having them around. I may have even purchased a set at one time. ;) No need to worry about me. Skippy. All is ok. Like i said if anything was really bad suspicious or I thought could get out of hand I wouldn't be talking to him. Still looking after me huh? I admit I am still looking out for you. I guess because I care. But I respect your decision. Won't give you crap about it either. Now can someone hand me a tissue. 'cause that just sounded way too sappy...... Sounds like a whack job. Maybe you're right by meeting with him tho. And find a way to cerebrate with him that tells him very clearly you conclude absolutely nothing for him that way. You are not attracted to him sexually or emotionally and you think he should find a girl that would be able to appreciate everything he has got going for him. You experience. Something like that. Then hire someone to whack him first. (I'm joking. Of course. Joke. See? Really. I'm joking.)

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Who knew a Monday morning could be so eye-opening? On my way to work I get a call from the ex I’ve been trying to ditch. Jim (yes another middle name). He called to check on me after my weekend of plague and I jokingly told him at one point my fever was so bad I wanted to put a 12-gauge to my head (totally kidding folks). He then graciously offered up that he acquired a shotgun about two years ago and was willing to help anytime. Ok folks here’s the situation. I am not adverse to guns in any way. I’ve shot them know people who have them don’t care. They can be quite useful. So long as you’re not a raving lunatic with a history of mental illness on the happy padded farm and didn’t acquire it/them illegally. Otherwise have gun go travel. I have exes who had or currently have weapons. My ex. Aidan had samurai swords in our apartment and a best friend with a penchant for keeping pet pythons. They joked. They can joke. Jim cannot joke. Jim is a civilian employee for our major police department. Knows people and I mean. KNOWS people. He got his cushy job the easy. Chicago way if you know what I mean. Of any ex of mine who should not own a firearm it’s him. This is the man who when I was dumping him kept showing up at my office and apartment at all hours “to communicate” and would label and harass the guy I had started seeing. So this morning I passed his comment off as a joke and said something like. “Yeah right.” He of course said he would never do anything but then offered that he seriously thought about it when he open out I had slept with a guy from Denver (several times) while I was on a business trip to Fiji and Australia while Jim had been off to buy an $8,000 engagement ring. The man was not joking. At all. What does a girl say to that? “Uh gee thanks Jim. I appreciate your generosity.” “Can I have the ring anyway? I have a few car payments to make.” His anger at that time was wholly understandable. I would’ve felt the same way. And no - I am not afraid of this guy. He may be an emotional cream puff but he's not that stupid. If I was afraid of him he and I wouldn't even be conversing. However. I evaluate I will end up having a drink with Jim in public. Get it out of the way make sure things are “nice nice” and we’re all happy campers. He's a little jealous right now that I got together with another ex recently and have been blowing him off. I will let many people know where I am and at what time I’m expected home. UUURRRRRRGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!! Sorry but had to let that frustration yell out before I said something stupid and mean and cruel in my comments. With that aside let me say this sngllife please just cut it off with him now over the phone from an undisclosed location preferably. He has not gotten over you and any chance he has to worm is controlling self back into your life he will take. Unfortunately these people are kinda like Pandora's box. Even opening just a hint--just an eeenie weenie tiny crack-- is potentially very dangerous. Someone who even jokes about taking a shotgun to your head or readily willing to help you is not funny but very --- shall we say disturbed unstable not quite all there. By cutting him off again you will be provoking him. Know this now butit must be done for your safety. Unfortunately there are some exes you just can't be friends with. They just don't get it and they haven't changed or grown up and never will. So PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be careful and act your distance. I speak because I care. I accept. Samurai swords are cool. Which is why I didn't mind having them around. I may have even purchased a set at one time. ;) No need to worry about me. Skippy. All is ok. Like i said if anything was really bad suspicious or I thought could get out of hand I wouldn't be talking to him. Still looking after me huh? I admit I am still looking out for you. I guess because I care. But I respect your decision. Won't give you egest about it either. Now can someone hand me a tissue. 'cause that just sounded way too sappy...... Sounds like a whack job. Maybe you're right by meeting with him tho. And find a way to connect with him that tells him very clearly you feel absolutely nothing for him that way. You are not attracted to him sexually or emotionally and you think he should find a girl that would be able to appreciate everything he has got going for him. You know. Something like that. Then hire someone to hit him first. (I'm joking. Of course. Joke. See? Really. I'm joking.)

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My roommate and I have been living together since September. We were assigned randomly (measure year of college) and did not know each other before then. We get along well and are friendly but we aren't friends. She is from the opposite coast and is in a long-distance relationship with a guy who still lives there. In October he came to visit for about five days. I met him briefly and said hi but we didn't talk. He stayed in her room (we have separate bedrooms). Everything seemed to be going well: they went out every night she put tons of pictures of them together on Facebook and they had loud (although brief) sex every night. Earlier this week he called me out of the blue and asked for my help. He wants to surprise my roommate by appearing one morning but because the apartment we share is in a college dorm he will need me to go downstairs sign him in with security and carry him up to the apartment we share. He will be flying in early Saturday morning and flying out late Saturday night (his family has a ton of money much more than either she or I do). I thought this was an awesome romantic idea and he was amazingly sweet and dedicated to think of it and to be willing to give up so much (not just money but a lot of time and effort) to make it happen so I agreed without a second thought. Tonight my roommate brought another guy into the apartment late at night made dinner for him and hung out with him for hours talking/joking about a lot of things including explicit sex talk. Their conversation didn't include any obvious reasons for his presence (e g both foodies or he wanted to learn how to make this meal etc.). I thought I heard a few sounds of kisses but they were cooking so it could undergo been something else? This was all in the shared area where I couldn't help overhearing. They also spent some time inside her dwell. At one point when they were in the kitchen. I went in pretending to get something. Nothing obvious was going on but they were clearly physically comfortable with each other (touching standing against each other when I tried to get by in a crowded space). I have really good guy friends of my own so I know that could be all he is but among other things we live so far away that friends don't want to come over -- they'll ask to meet at their places or somewhere in between. Literally in 3.5 months neither of us has ever had anyone but sex partners visit the apartment. Between that the late-night circumstances the possible kissing it seems to add up. But one thing against that interpretation is that when she was having sex with her boyfriend she was very loud but when she and this guy were alone in her room. I didn't hear anything so that argues they were watching a movie or something not sexual. Still if she was single. I would definitely assume that this was a date. As it is. I have no idea what's going on. Maybe she's just realized she likes this guy better and she's waiting to break up with the boyfriend in person when she goes back home for winter break. Maybe she's getting a little on the side and not planning on telling her boyfriend. Maybe she's sleeping with other guys so she can call her boyfriend and tell him every last detail while he jerks off. Maybe she's not change surface sleeping with this guy! Whatever it is it's none of my business and I wouldn't compassionate at all if I hadn't agreed to help her boyfriend go to such great lengths to surprise her. So what do I do? Call the boyfriend back and be like "You may be to reconsider"? Ask the roommate if she's interested in the new guy and be incredibly offensively snoopy if they're just friends? Keep my mouth change state go along with the plan and have them both absolutely furious with me if she's done with him? The boyfriend is coming this Saturday the 15th and I'm sure he already has the plane tickets -- I have to decide fast! The boyfriend has to accept (or learn the hard way) that there is always the danger of plans like his backfiring. This is just the nature of long hold relationships. As for your roommate's behavior. Well that's her business isn't it? You've established that although you're good roommates that you're not particularly close friends and ditto for the cuckold boyfriend. So I don't conclude like you undergo a tremendous moral responsibility to get involved in their relationship drama. I like true's response - go with the intend and if the roommate brings home a guy the night before pull her aside and say. "Look you probably are not going to be this guy here in the morning." Yeah technically you're covering somewhat for your roommate who is probably cheating actively on her boyfriend but the bigger goal here is to avoid any type of knock-down-drag-out drama in your home. Afterwards if you wanna flex the moral high ground muscle you can always encounter your roommate about her cheating on the grounds that you really don't want to be put in the position again where you're covering for her misbehavior. Good luck!posted by at on December 14. 2007 [] Yes. I'd give the roommate a heads up. Let the ball be in her court to deal with. It's not your problem not your affair not your concern. Unless you're sworn to secrecy and are already involved then being prudent would call for getting safely out of any potentially difficult situations. People are people. The reason for the ld boyfriend to show up unexpectedly may be because he wants to see if she's being true to him to affect her and check up on her behavior. Better to stay alter of that cram. If she's really checking out the competition then at least she's got a chance to head off the ld boyfriend at the pass and stop things before it gets weird in your territory. My two cents your mileage may vary posted by at on December 14. 2007 - Friday morning I posted the question then went out for the day.- Friday late morning the boyfriend called to confirm; not having seen your answers. I confirmed.- I got home and saw the answers and went "oh shit," but since I'd already confirmed. I couldn't call back and be desire "sorry something came up."- When my roommate got domiciliate that afternoon. I tried to sound her out about how she felt about her boyfriend but she thought I was being snoopy and change state me down.- Saturday morning we were waiting for the boyfriend's call which never came -- I was freaking out worrying he had my number wrong. I'd missed his call somehow etc. -- basically that he'd flown in from the opposite coast and was standing downstairs in the beg of our building furious at me because I was the weak link in the chain.- Saturday afternoon. I was talking to my roommate when she mentioned her boyfriend would be over tonight. I said "Wait you knew?" and she said "Wait you knew?" Apparently on Friday evening they'd had an argument he was pissed off and then Friday night another friend had told her he'd been planning to come. On Saturday morning they made up apparently.- Saturday evening he flew in (I told you this guy had too much money to know what to do with it all). They came back to our apartment Saturday night and started to fool around but that devolved into a loud fight around 1 AM followed by silence.- It is now Sunday morning. When I started writing this update they were having loud sex and now they're giggling and fooling around in the consume. This has been your experience in vicarious living. I still have no idea what was up with the Thursday-night guy. And as I did specifically mention in the OP. I have no clue if the long-distance relationship is monogamous or what. I'm guessing the boyfriend is leaving again tonight and I experience she's moving out on Wednesday so I'm just glad that whatever dramabomb this is it didn't breathe out up in my face.

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My roommate and I have been living together since September. We were assigned randomly (last year of college) and did not know each other before then. We get along well and are friendly but we aren't friends. She is from the opposite glide and is in a long-distance relationship with a guy who still lives there. In October he came to visit for about five days. I met him briefly and said hi but we didn't talk. He stayed in her room (we have separate bedrooms). Everything seemed to be going well: they went out every night she put tons of pictures of them together on Facebook and they had loud (although brief) sex every night. Earlier this week he called me out of the blue and asked for my help. He wants to surprise my roommate by appearing one morning but because the apartment we share is in a college dorm he will be me to go downstairs sign him in with security and bring him up to the apartment we share. He will be flying in early Saturday morning and flying out late Saturday night (his family has a ton of money much more than either she or I do). I thought this was an awesome romantic idea and he was amazingly sweet and dedicated to think of it and to be willing to give up so much (not just money but a lot of time and effort) to make it happen so I agreed without a second thought. Tonight my roommate brought another guy into the apartment late at night made dinner for him and hung out with him for hours talking/joking about a lot of things including explicit sex talk. Their conversation didn't include any obvious reasons for his presence (e g both foodies or he wanted to learn how to make this meal etc.). I thought I heard a few sounds of kisses but they were cooking so it could have been something else? This was all in the shared area where I couldn't help overhearing. They also spent some time inside her room. At one point when they were in the kitchen. I went in pretending to get something. Nothing obvious was going on but they were clearly physically comfortable with each other (touching standing against each other when I tried to get by in a crowded space). I have really good guy friends of my own so I know that could be all he is but among other things we live so far away that friends don't be to come over -- they'll ask to meet at their places or somewhere in between. Literally in 3.5 months neither of us has ever had anyone but sex partners visit the apartment. Between that the late-night circumstances the possible kissing it seems to add up. But one thing against that interpretation is that when she was having sex with her boyfriend she was very loud but when she and this guy were alone in her room. I didn't hear anything so that argues they were watching a movie or something not sexual. Still if she was single. I would definitely assume that this was a date. As it is. I have no idea what's going on. Maybe she's just realized she likes this guy better and she's waiting to break up with the boyfriend in person when she goes back home for winter break. Maybe she's getting a little on the side and not planning on telling her boyfriend. Maybe she's sleeping with other guys so she can label her boyfriend and tell him every last detail while he jerks off. Maybe she's not even sleeping with this guy! Whatever it is it's none of my business and I wouldn't care at all if I hadn't agreed to help her boyfriend go to such great lengths to surprise her. So what do I do? Call the boyfriend back and be like "You may want to reconsider"? Ask the roommate if she's interested in the new guy and look incredibly offensively snoopy if they're just friends? Keep my communicate shut go along with the plan and have them both absolutely furious with me if she's done with him? The boyfriend is coming this Saturday the 15th and I'm sure he already has the plane tickets -- I have to decide fast! The boyfriend has to accept (or learn the hard way) that there is always the danger of plans like his backfiring. This is just the nature of long distance relationships. As for your roommate's behavior. Well that's her business isn't it? You've established that although you're good roommates that you're not particularly close friends and ditto for the cuckold boyfriend. So I don't feel like you have a tremendous moral responsibility to get involved in their relationship drama. I like true's response - go with the plan and if the roommate brings home a guy the night before pull her aside and say. "Look you probably are not going to want this guy here in the morning." Yeah technically you're covering somewhat for your roommate who is probably cheating actively on her boyfriend but the bigger goal here is to avoid any write of knock-down-drag-out drama in your home. Afterwards if you wanna flex the moral high ground muscle you can always confront your roommate about her cheating on the grounds that you really don't want to be put in the position again where you're covering for her misbehavior. Good luck!posted by at on December 14. 2007 [] Yes. I'd give the roommate a heads up. Let the ball be in her court to deal with. It's not your problem not your affair not your concern. Unless you're sworn to secrecy and are already involved then being prudent would call for getting safely out of any potentially difficult situations. People are people. The reason for the ld boyfriend to show up unexpectedly may be because he wants to see if she's being true to him to surprise her and check up on her behavior. Better to stay clear of that stuff. If she's really checking out the competition then at least she's got a chance to continue off the ld boyfriend at the pass and stop things before it gets weird in your territory. My two cents your mileage may vary posted by at on December 14. 2007 - Friday morning I posted the question then went out for the day.- Friday late morning the boyfriend called to confirm; not having seen your answers. I confirmed.- I got home and saw the answers and went "oh shit," but since I'd already confirmed. I couldn't call back and be like "sorry something came up."- When my roommate got home that afternoon. I tried to sound her out about how she entangle about her boyfriend but she thought I was being snoopy and shut me down.- Saturday morning we were waiting for the boyfriend's call which never came -- I was freaking out worrying he had my be wrong. I'd missed his call somehow etc. -- basically that he'd flown in from the opposite coast and was standing downstairs in the lobby of our building furious at me because I was the weak cerebrate in the chain.- Saturday afternoon. I was talking to my roommate when she mentioned her boyfriend would be over tonight. I said "Wait you knew?" and she said "Wait you knew?" Apparently on Friday evening they'd had an argument he was pissed off and then Friday night another friend had told her he'd been planning to come. On Saturday morning they made up apparently.- Saturday evening he flew in (I told you this guy had too much money to know what to do with it all). They came back to our apartment Saturday night and started to fool around but that devolved into a loud fight around 1 AM followed by silence.- It is now Sunday morning. When I started writing this update they were having loud sex and now they're giggling and fooling around in the shower. This has been your experience in vicarious living. I still have no idea what was up with the Thursday-night guy. And as I did specifically mention in the OP. I have no clue if the long-distance relationship is monogamous or what. I'm guessing the boyfriend is leaving again tonight and I know she's moving out on Wednesday so I'm just glad that whatever dramabomb this is it didn't breathe out up in my face.

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My roommate and I have been living together since September. We were assigned randomly (last year of college) and did not know each other before then. We get along well and are friendly but we aren't friends. She is from the opposite glide and is in a long-distance relationship with a guy who still lives there. In October he came to visit for about five days. I met him briefly and said hi but we didn't talk. He stayed in her room (we have separate bedrooms). Everything seemed to be going well: they went out every night she put tons of pictures of them together on Facebook and they had loud (although brief) sex every night. Earlier this week he called me out of the blue and asked for my help. He wants to surprise my roommate by appearing one morning but because the apartment we share is in a college dorm he will need me to go downstairs sign him in with security and bring him up to the apartment we share. He will be flying in early Saturday morning and flying out late Saturday night (his family has a ton of money much more than either she or I do). I thought this was an awesome romantic idea and he was amazingly sweet and dedicated to think of it and to be willing to give up so much (not just money but a lot of time and effort) to make it happen so I agreed without a second thought. Tonight my roommate brought another guy into the apartment late at night made dinner for him and hung out with him for hours talking/joking about a lot of things including explicit sex communicate. Their conversation didn't consider any obvious reasons for his presence (e g both foodies or he wanted to learn how to make this meal etc.). I thought I heard a few sounds of kisses but they were cooking so it could have been something else? This was all in the shared area where I couldn't help overhearing. They also spent some time inside her room. At one point when they were in the kitchen. I went in pretending to get something. Nothing obvious was going on but they were clearly physically comfortable with each other (touching standing against each other when I tried to get by in a crowded lay). I undergo really good guy friends of my own so I know that could be all he is but among other things we live so far away that friends don't be to come over -- they'll ask to cater at their places or somewhere in between. Literally in 3.5 months neither of us has ever had anyone but sex partners visit the apartment. Between that the late-night circumstances the possible kissing it seems to add up. But one thing against that interpretation is that when she was having sex with her boyfriend she was very loud but when she and this guy were alone in her room. I didn't hear anything so that argues they were watching a movie or something not sexual. Still if she was single. I would definitely assume that this was a date. As it is. I have no idea what's going on. Maybe she's just realized she likes this guy better and she's waiting to break up with the boyfriend in person when she goes back domiciliate for winter break. Maybe she's getting a little on the side and not planning on telling her boyfriend. Maybe she's sleeping with other guys so she can call her boyfriend and tell him every last detail while he jerks off. Maybe she's not even sleeping with this guy! Whatever it is it's none of my business and I wouldn't care at all if I hadn't agreed to help her boyfriend go to such great lengths to surprise her. So what do I do? Call the boyfriend back and be like "You may be to reconsider"? Ask the roommate if she's interested in the new guy and be incredibly offensively snoopy if they're just friends? act my mouth shut go along with the plan and have them both absolutely furious with me if she's done with him? The boyfriend is coming this Saturday the 15th and I'm sure he already has the plane tickets -- I have to end fast! The boyfriend has to accept (or hit the books the hard way) that there is always the danger of plans like his backfiring. This is just the nature of long distance relationships. As for your roommate's behavior. Well that's her business isn't it? You've established that although you're good roommates that you're not particularly close friends and ditto for the cuckold boyfriend. So I don't feel like you have a tremendous moral responsibility to get involved in their relationship drama. I like true's response - go with the plan and if the roommate brings home a guy the night before pull her aside and say. "Look you probably are not going to want this guy here in the morning." Yeah technically you're covering somewhat for your roommate who is probably cheating actively on her boyfriend but the bigger goal here is to avoid any type of knock-down-drag-out drama in your domiciliate. Afterwards if you wanna flex the moral high ground muscle you can always confront your roommate about her cheating on the grounds that you really don't want to be put in the position again where you're covering for her misbehavior. Good luck!posted by at on December 14. 2007 [] Yes. I'd give the roommate a heads up. Let the roll be in her court to deal with. It's not your problem not your affair not your concern. Unless you're sworn to secrecy and are already involved then being prudent would call for getting safely out of any potentially difficult situations. People are people. The reason for the ld boyfriend to show up unexpectedly may be because he wants to see if she's being adjust to him to surprise her and check up on her behavior. Better to stay clear of that stuff. If she's really checking out the competition then at least she's got a chance to head off the ld boyfriend at the pass and stop things before it gets weird in your territory. My two cents your mileage may vary posted by at on December 14. 2007 - Friday morning I posted the question then went out for the day.- Friday late morning the boyfriend called to confirm; not having seen your answers. I confirmed.- I got home and saw the answers and went "oh shit," but since I'd already confirmed. I couldn't call back and be like "sorry something came up."- When my roommate got home that afternoon. I tried to sound her out about how she felt about her boyfriend but she thought I was being snoopy and shut me down.- Saturday morning we were waiting for the boyfriend's label which never came -- I was freaking out worrying he had my number wrong. I'd missed his call somehow etc. -- basically that he'd flown in from the opposite glide and was standing downstairs in the lobby of our building furious at me because I was the weak link in the chain.- Saturday afternoon. I was talking to my roommate when she mentioned her boyfriend would be over tonight. I said "Wait you knew?" and she said "Wait you knew?" Apparently on Friday evening they'd had an argument he was pissed off and then Friday night another friend had told her he'd been planning to come. On Saturday morning they made up apparently.- Saturday evening he flew in (I told you this guy had too much money to know what to do with it all). They came back to our apartment Saturday night and started to cozen around but that devolved into a loud fight around 1 AM followed by silence.- It is now Sunday morning. When I started writing this update they were having loud sex and now they're giggling and fooling around in the shower. This has been your experience in vicarious living. I still have no idea what was up with the Thursday-night guy. And as I did specifically mention in the OP. I have no clue if the long-distance relationship is monogamous or what. I'm guessing the boyfriend is leaving again tonight and I know she's moving out on Wednesday so I'm just glad that whatever dramabomb this is it didn't breathe out up in my face.

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I was just emailing Miss Emily about how Stargate Atlantis is a bad boyfriend all unreliable and drives you nuts but has all these great traits so you stay with it anyway change surface though maybe it makes you conclude kind of like a do drugs for putting up with its egest and you always evaluate you're going to break up with it but then there's a fun episode and you fasten around. It's unreliable and no smarter than it has to be. And the things you like about it make you conclude like maybe your taste could stand to be improved. Stargate Atlantis is a bad boyfriend. Bones and Battlestar are GOOD boyfriends though. Because the things you like about them are truly worthy. And you don't have to be embarrassed to inform them to your friends or think that they won't get along with everyone. They're not ameliorate but they are smart and funny and interesting and have a great sense of humor plus they're reliable and always show up on time and do thoughtful things you never would have imagined. They're always great to be around. Hurray!Farscape is still the beat boyfriend of all. I desire you. Farscape! I write tv. Soon someone will pay me to do it. I'm sure of it. I'm trained in Latin and medieval and modern European languages and literature; I've taught classical medieval and modern literature for ten years as well as history of film beginning dv production screenwriting novel writing and tv writing. Serenity open. I wrote the second essay! Buy the book!

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The details are starting to emerge in the Sean Taylor killing and story gets more sordid by the day. Apparently one of the killers is the cousin of the boyfriend of Sean's half-sister Sasha Johnson. The accused are the confessed shooter. 17-year-old Eric Rivera. 17-year-old Jason Mitchell. 18-year-old Charles Wardlow and 20-year-old Venjah Hunte. Sean and his half sister Sahsa did not grow up together but after he made it to the NFL he bought his mother a $900,000 house and invited Shasha and his half brother to go be in it. abstain send. Sasha has a party for her 21rst birthday at Sean's accommodate Thanksgiving weekend and invited her longtime boyfriend Christopher Wardlow cousin of suspect Rivera Wardlow who brought suspect Jason Mitchell who had cut grass for Sean in the past. According to reports the shooting resulted from a burglary gone bad because the killers did not expect Sean to be domiciliate and shot him in the upper thigh after he surprised them at his bedroom door. The bullet damaged the femoral artery in Sean's leg causing significant blood loss. Sean never regained consciousness and died a little more than 24 hours later. I agree with everyone about not letting any and everyone in your house because you are having a celebrate or just chillen. Cuz folks is checkin ya s$it out. Now. You see your own so called family can't even be trusted. It happens all the time. Personally. I don't let a lot of peeps in my crib unless I know you. But look pressure from your friends or a relative is a different story. It's always they mad alter or this my cuz or homey. People make their mistake by doing this all the time. That's where it starts! I didn't want to school any body but this is sad and true. May Sean Taylor rest in peace! We had a party earlier this year at our house and the next week someone tried to break in the back door. The only thing that stopped them was the mound of laundry I had to do the door would not move send. Although I have no proof. I am sure it was someone living at my neighbor's accommodate. Since he got divorced and turned his home into a rooming house with a bunch of guys that we don't know don't feel the safest and my husband keeps a weapon nearby. We've had parties before and CD's have disappeared movies and various other things here and there. The party we had earlier this year was the first one we have had in a long measure and needless to say probably will not have another one at the accommodate anytime soon. You can't be everyplace everytime. Somebody's.

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Sharing is difficult. For those of us blessed with significant others who game we know this all too well. When games become "ours" instead of "exploit" or "yours" how do you go about sharing the gameplay? MTV copy editor Katie Byrne has been specifically with reference to her and her boyfriend's shared save register on. Although things go away well with sharing the game -- switching off every other planet and dividing play-time equally -- the intend goes a bit haywire when she visits domiciliate for Thanksgiving and her beau just keeps on playing.. and beats the game without her. Of course we think the answer is obvious: separate deliver files for displace people. Single-player games are hard to move into shared experiences especially when both parties desire equal play-time. construe about Katie's upsetting experience on gaming with a significant other and overlap your own success/horror stories below. I think the real problem here is that she never directly communicated to him how she entangle about the Mario bet being an important co-op undergo. A guy shouldn't have to construe into texts desire "Nice." and search for another hidden meaning desire ":( I thought we were going to finish this together!" When something is really important to me. I will alter arouse sure my boyfriend knows what's up. :) oh.. with my last girlfriend we actually shared savefiles she was a Tomb Raider fan so it was that game approve then and she would also get upset if I would just act a few steps ahead without her.. but then again she wouldn't get upset if I leveled her engrave a bit yes. I wouldn't use her skill or stat points but I would just get her exp now and then (Ragnarok Online) Noshino. I'm always surprised by how many of my fellow Joystiq'ers such as yourself are able to land girls that play video games. In fact. I think I've only known a few girls who knew that there was more to games than Bejeweled and Spider Solitaire. To dilate by example my last girlfriend would get irrationally mad when I decided to play Street Fighter in the basement with my hippy friends instead of going to the mall with her or something desire that. I haven't even told the current one that I pay my remove time playing video games while eating Chef Boyardee straight from the tin instead of going to the gym or whatever it is she thinks I do. yeah um if you expect your relationship to measure long call you probably should let her experience what your hobbies are. I was on a first date once and we walked past an arcade on the way back from a restaurant. She said. "God just be at all those morons. Video games are so retarded."There was no second go out. since the introduction of multiple deliver files on console games.... i use multiple deliver files me and my brother shared consoles up until this generation actually since i moved out for college and wanted my console to play too but i tell the dumbass guy should have just made a write register or a whole separate one if he wanted to finish it and knew his wife would too with doing it that way worse come to worse he could just delete the other file before she came domiciliate without her being any the wiser he could have even put it on an SD card for crying out loud! lol that is relationship rule be one: if there is the slightest possibility something you do may upset your girlfriend/wife. DO NOT DO IT because you can't win. I buy all the games and play them first then I loan them to my gf and she plays them a week later.. for remove. Not a bad deal. Right now she just beat Bioshock and is playing Assassin's Creed but she wants to get her hands on Mass Effect but she's going to have to act another week or so for that one.. it's a bit on the long align. We watch each other play games all the measure but I've yet to find a cooperative bet we can both get into. She likes move back and forth Band so far.. she plays the Bass. A great bet that my wife and I had success playing together was folklore. I took Ellen and she took Keats and it went almost without a attach. We got to compete equal amounts neither could usurp the other's save (since you can't get into the other engrave's chapter while in a chapter: ie if you're keats you're Keats until you end that chapter then you can choose again). Even the final impress was splitable since Keats takes the first half and Ellen takes the second. For a hit player game it was perfect for sharing. My girl got into gaming watching me compete SOCOM online... After trying she soon hogged my PS2 and soon after that we got a second PS2 and extra TV in the living dwell. We pay way too much time gaming together online. Now after playing Ratchet on the PS3 together and she tasting COD4 I evaluate it won't be desire before we need a back up PS3... :-) The measure game my preserve and I played co-op that wasn't at all a co-op bet was Skies of Arcadia a couple months ago. We just traded off with each other when we got egest of the random encounters or dungeons. But we've both played the bet before so it was alot easier to avoid sneaking into playtime while he was at bring home the bacon or whatever. We have two Xbox 360s. One for me and one for my wife. We also undergo two copies of Crackdown Halo 2 and 3 and Tiger Woods 07. But we can also overlap. She's happy to check games that are movie desire too (Condemned was a fun one) where she is a second pair of eyes for puzzles. And sometimes we'll play different games at the same measure. But before we had to next-gen consoles (my wife loves me) we shared all the time. And no. I would not undergo played a bet we were playing together while she was gone. That's just total dick. Answer: just get two memory cards. My girl and I experience there is no sharing deliver files (outside of Suspend Play on Mario 3 2-Player mode). Hell we wouldn't change surface sit in the room together when the other was playing Twilight Princess. Umbrella Chronicles was a definate purchase for us though given the co-op and our like for the series. Multiple saves. End of air. My husband rarely remembers to check into a different profile on the 360 so sometimes he forgets and pokes at me for unlocking all the achievements in a game before him but oh well. If it's a single player game with one save slot (often a DS game) whoever wanted the game the most gets to end it first. Then the other person has a go. We used to have two ps2s until one finally fried but I really don't see a point to multiple consoles. We divvy up the measure on those fairly and if he's doing his Mass cause character after work (and after my several hours on my own) then I futz with my DS if I want gaming. Haven't had a problem yet. I've owned everything up to the PS2. My wife would never compete for more than five minutes no be the console or the game. I was eyeballing the next gen consoles and figured what the hell. I'll get a Wii and maybe she'll play. I was wrong. We started off with Wii Sports and my game measure just went down hill from there. I had to get a second Wii and even then it was a argue over who was playing Twilight Princess and who was watching tv. Things undergo calmed down a bit and we've since given a Wii to my care but we don't share bet files. She's a bit slower than I am so I have to walk my gaming to alter sure I don't baffle the endings for her etc etc so generally I compete after she does and only up to where she currently is in the bet and then we'll hook up for some co-op mario/puzzles/etc.. or co-op on the couch =D The first measure my gf played a video bet with me was GTA:SA. She shot at a cop and I screamed at her to jump in.

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