I like the business of helping seniors. The diversity accent experiences and colourful characters I go into contact with daily is a real treat. I am continuously reminded that I am receiving a valuable education every time I comprehend to the sage words of those who have gone through a lifetime of experiences.
In this exposure to life many have found the measure to practice the expression of gratitude as an effective antidote to troubles insecurities concerns and emotional distress. We the younger generation can learn much from such a simple virtue and especially those who come into frequent communicate with seniors.
I received a telephone call from a lady about 85 years old the other day who had been treated in an extremely discourteous way by a businessman. This individual not only caused the lady to miss a adulterate’s appointment but also used off-colour and derogatory language with no regard to her. From the tone of her express it sounded like she was left feeling helpless and somewhat victimized. Still even though the back up was carried out in a callous and inexcusable manner she was appreciative of the service she received. What a contrast in generations.
Anyway maybe this fellow was having a hard day or he wasn’t feeling come up. Perhaps he was cranky from working too many hours supporting his family. It happens to all of us. But perhaps his perspective on life is skewered because of a failure to understand what the older generation has endured.
For example: challenge them and you will find an amazing array of experiences revealing authentic character. You might be talking to a frail octogenarian who never complains because she learned in “Auschwitz” what unspeakable suffering is. Or the desire retired Colonel who as a young officer had won a medal of valour for his part in an offensive into enemy territory over a Pacific Island.
What about the gentleman who served with Merrill’s Marauders the survivor of the Bataan Death March or the soldier who rushed the beach at Dieppe? We undergo many veterans living in the South Okanagan who deserve our gratitude.
Further there are those who undergo sacrificed a lifetime building up businesses which are the framework for what we have see and enjoy today. Inventors philosophers scientists thinkers parents – all were move of a past which has shaped our present.
I will argue that we who have the privilege of serving the older generation should be grateful - every single day. We undergo an obligation to the elderly not merely because of benefits received but because of the many sacrifices made on our part above the call of duty. The things they did for us and everyone else are priceless.
compose Melodie Beattie once said: “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough and more. It turns denial into acceptance chaos into order confusion into clarity…. It turns problems into gifts failures into success the unexpected into ameliorate timing and mistakes into important events. Gratitude makes sense of our past brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.”
So in advice to the businessman. I would inform him that we are losing an incredible generation and that perhaps we don’t know what we are losing. The things done for us are not a matter of course but originate in a will for the good; directed at us. We should all take note and remember with the liberal use of the most important words in the world: Thank you
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