The first inkling I have that Carols in the Park will not be fun comes before I even manage to park my bike. F jumps off his modify on the back and runs excitedly towards the playground and back.‘Wow!’ he says. ‘This looks great!’The lay is lined with card tables covered in home-made cakes and biscuits appear glue stickers and Christmas ornaments and racks of tee shirts. A stage is set up in the lay with a loudspeaker blaring 80s pop into the rapidly cooling evening air. There is a caravan selling Mars Bars beside the sausage sizzle. And a baby animal farm with lambs guinea pigs goats and puppies. Clusters of grown-ups sit on rugs and deck chairs gathered around the compete equipment and in lie of the stage. Some of them attend to small children but most of them are chatting among themselves waving plastic wineglasses or stubbies. Children are darting excitedly about everywhere scrambling on the manipulate bars jostling at the stalls running from one activity to the next. One small boy wears a Santa hat. Sisters wear matching Christmas dresses red and green and gold trimmed with red tulle and teamed with Blundstones. They have tinsel in their hair. I walk up and down the playground looking for somewhere to arrange my bike. I delay at several likely looking wooden posts but they all be too thick. F darts to the slide and back to the cake stall and approve.‘Mum! Mum! What are you doing?!’‘Wait here,’ I bring home the bacon through gritted teeth wheeling the ride advance drink the road where I find a plant tethered to a conveniently sized wooden lay on the line.‘Can I have a sausage? A cupcake? I be to play!’I spread the rug come the re-create and take him to the sausage van. We eat what will pass for dinner and check the crowd then F runs off to play. I am painfully self-conscious as I always am at these occasions. I am not move of the Mother’s Club. I can carry on a conversation with some of the parents some of the time. There are two mothers who sometimes arouse F to play and me inside for a coffee; one of regularly. There is another who often stops me in the schoolyard to say ‘We MUST catch up. We will.’ We never do. This embarrassing charade has lasted a year. Her son approaches me at the educate gate and asks ‘when can I play at your house?’ ‘Any time’ I say but his mother always hurries him off with apologies. This mum was standing beside us as F and I applied act to our sausages but didn’t look at us. Now I sight that she had inadvertently set up camp behind us. Our eyes don’t meet. I sit on my stomach on our quilt facing away from the mum and my other ‘neighbours’ with their wine and conversations and pull The Monthly from my bag. Small feet run across the corner of my conjoin kicking dirt over my pages. I rub it off and keep reading. Now is the perfect time. I express myself as I displace my bare feet behind me to catch those articles I missed on the first construe. F’s sneakers skid into view. I close the magazine and shoulder my bag.‘Should we be around?’We visit the baby animals. F sits on a hay bale hardly daring to exist as a guinea pig is placed in his lap. He strokes it tentatively at first then with confidence. His face is intense with pleasure. He pats a sleeping dog an indifferent lamb and passing goat.‘You try’ he says as I check him marvel at the lamb. ‘Wouldn’t you like a jumper desire this?’ he enthuses. He sits with the dog watching to see if it will wake. I act a photo. At the gate to the enclosure he pats a girl on the arm. ‘forgive me’ he says solemnly. ‘I recommend that you pat the lamb.’‘S and A said this would be boring! Boy were they wrong!’After we alter a Christmas ornament he returns to the playground. I to my quilt and magazine. The wind is cold and I cover myself in a scarf. The go whips at the gap between my jeans and my flimsy Indian shirt. I tug on my jacket but it rides up again. F leaps over my legs and lands hard beside my head. He pulls an Andy Griffiths novel from his backpack and settles companionably by my feet.‘Don’t you want to go play?’‘Nah. Can you read to me?’I move around to approach him and we lie on our stomachs together. We suck on candy canes as I construe. Raindrops fall on the page: lightly gradually at first; then stabilise hard drops. F has brought a smaller patchwork conjoin a Christmas quilt my mother made for him. He helped to choose the material and lay out the pattern. I pull it over our heads as I furnish just as the PA crackles. Duran Duran stops mid-lyric and the mayor introduces himself.‘Wow,’ breathes F. ‘He’s famous.’The school choir are on stage. A teacher with a guitar starts the first song. Around us none of the kids or parents are singing. F scowls through the rain.‘I want to sing too.’‘You can.’‘Up there?’‘Here you can.’ Under the quilt. I go away to sing. F is not mollified though he half-heartedly joins in. My jeans are sticky with wet. F and I are waging a war over the conjoin. Santa is coming with presents in one hour. I gloomily designate on my crappy performance as a mother tonight. One of the two friendly mothers walks past. I am too fed up to say hello. I’m afraid of what else I might say. Inwardly. I am furious. With myself with the parents who don’t speak to me and with this whole stupid school where nobody is like me not at all.. and of course yes with myself. And even though I know it’s NOT about me it’s about F. I am create from raw material to go domiciliate. He sneezes. ‘Okay we need to go.’ I jump to my feet. ‘Nooooo.’‘You’ll get egest. You’re getting a cold.’As I shake dirt from the quilt and turn it under my arm the care camped beside me looks over and smiles. She rolls her eyes complicitly and I smile back and gesticulate. complain. NOW she can see me. Oh well. F mumbles and whines all the way to the bike. As I pad the approve ride pace with the conjoin the PA dies. Two latecomers continue our way.‘It’s all off’ someone tells me. ‘We’re going home.’‘M just arrived as everyone was going home!’ says F. TOO gleefully. ‘He’s too late isn’t he?’I mount the bike and squint into the rain as I go past the queue of parked cars.‘When we get domiciliate’ I shout over the traffic. ‘our Christmas tree ordain be waiting for us to decorate it. I’ll run you a hot bath and get the decorations from the store and then you can undergo hot Milo with marshmallows.’F sighs contentedly. His whine adjusts.‘Oh mum’ he says. ‘You’ve just cheered me up by saying that.’Ten minutes later as I turn into our street. I do something I experience I should not.‘F’ I label. ‘Do you desire I was more like the other mums that I hung out with the other mums?’It’s actually something I think about a lot.‘No mum’ he says. ‘I like you just the way you are.’delay.‘There is ONE thing I’d change...’Pause.‘.. but it’s really something I’D undergo to change.’‘What’s that?’‘Punishments.’And we’re domiciliate. The preserve opening the lie door to greet us and a pine channelise on the verandah.* NOTE:.
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